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AIMEE NOW to set up your FREE
CONSULTATION.
RELATIONSHIP
COUNSELING:
COUPLES: PREMARITAL
:
FAMILIES
For
COUPLES
Relationships
are my primary focus.
So
many times I watch couples come into counseling to "save"
their relationship. By this time, resentment may have gotten
so deep, it can be challenging to overcome. It's usually
because the couple ends up getting "comfortable"
or "complacent", and there is usually a lack of
communication. They end up living somewhat satisfactory
and fulfilling lives together - staying with the status
quo.
In my personal and professional practice, the goal is to
rise above this status quo and create the most fulfilling
relationship possible.
My
idea is to enhance and build upon what is
considered satisfactory - and take it to the next level.
If you are going to spend the majority of your time and
life together, why not make it incredible?
I
use an integration of traditional and holistic methods with
my relationships. Combining the Couple's
Wheel of Life with what I call Relationship Strengths
will allow you - as a couple - to get very clear with where
you hold your strengths and weaknesses. Once that is identified,
you will get specific with what Strengths need the
most nurturing, identify goals and desires, and practice
logical and simple methods to help you get stronger in that
area.
The
Couple's Wheel of Life includes The Five Intimacies**:
Physical Intimacy, Emotional Intimacy, Mental Intimacy,
Spiritual Intimacy, and Social Intimacy - more in-depth
descriptions of these will be available shortly.
I
am currently working on a publication based on the Relationship
Strengths. These are strengths I focus on with the couple's
that I counsel, as well was within my own relationship.
Some of the concepts include:
TRUST
& HONESTY
CONFLICT RESOLUTION
EFFORT
COMMUNICATION
OWNERSHIP & RESPONSIBILITY
Cost:
first session is always free. Fees start at:
$120 per hourly session
$180 per 1.5 hour session
Package Discounts:
$10 off per session if you purchase 5 upfront ($50 discount)
$15 off per session if you purchase 10 upfront ($150 discount)
*If you purchase a package and choose not to complete
your sessions, you will be refunded minus the difference
of the full session fee of the agreed upon hourly fee.
(credit cards, cash, and/or checks accepted)
Most PPO and POS insurances accepted as an out-of-network
provider.
*Please
don't let cost ever stop you from taking care of your needs.
Everything is doable! Just contact
me and if we cannot find synergy, I will provide you with
alternative resources.
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*Relationship
Strengths © 2006 Aimee Zakrewski
**The Five Intimacies
©
2006 Aimee Zakrewski
Premarital
Counseling
Congratulations!
If you having come to this section, it means that you are
embarking on one of the most amazing, courageous, and connected
experiences of life: marriage.
I
have a simple protocol when it comes to Premarital Counseling:
1.
Holistic Assessment: we will do a thorough assessment
of where you are in your relationship based on the five
major aspects of life: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual,
and social/relational. This will create your Couple's
Wheel of Life.
2.
Taking Action: Based on the results of your assessment,
you will develop specific intentions/goals for areas where
you need extra support. You will also practice specific
tools and exercises to grow closer in that part of your
Wheel. This can include, but is not limited to:
1.
Process vs. Content
2. Knowing Needs/Making
Needs Requests
3. Conflict Resolution
4. Negative interaction pattern/Empathy
5. Principles of Communication
6. Gottman’s 4 Horsemen
7. Five Languages
of Love/Apology
8. Expectations of Marriage
9. Short-term & Long-term Goals
I
approach each couple with a blank slate of which you create
the picture. This means that there is no predetermined agenda
or specific number of sessions. I suggest you begin with
five initial sessions (of which the first is free).
Cost:
first session is always free. Fees start at:
$120 per hourly session
$180 per 1.5 hour session
Package Discounts:
$10 off per session if you purchase 5 upfront ($50 discount)
$15 off per session if you purchase 10 upfront ($150 discount)
*If you purchase a package and choose not to complete
your sessions, you will be refunded minus the difference
of the full session fee of the agreed upon hourly fee.
(credit cards, cash, and/or checks accepted)
Most PPO and POS insurances accepted as an out-of-network
provider
*Please
don't let cost ever stop you from taking care of your needs.
Everything is doable! Just contact
me and if we cannot find synergy, I will provide you with
alternative resources.
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For
FAMILIES
There
comes a time in life where we have growing pains and road
blocks. During these times, we may need assistance from
an objective voice to help us move through them.
Whether
it is the new experience of a divorce, blending two families
together, communication with your teenager, or launching
your child from the home - counseling can ease the transition,
open up lines of communication, and provide another view
of the situation.
The
Benefits of a Family Meeting
Have
you ever tried to have a family meeting and it feels like
you are getting nowhere? Having an objective mediator can
make family meetings go a lot smoother and enable you to
get focused and clear on what's needed. The overall goal
is teamwork!
Cost:
first session is always free. Fees start at:
$120 per hourly session
$180 per 1.5 hour session
Package Discounts:
$10 off per session if you purchase 5 upfront ($50 discount)
$15 off per session if you purchase 10 upfront ($150 discount)
(credit cards, cash, and/or checks accepted)
Most PPO and POS insurances accepted as an out-of-network
provider
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More coming soon! Click here
for an in-depth biography.
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